Please check one of the following:
Yes
No
Maybe
Ahhh, the good ol' days. When finding out if someone liked you was as easy as a simple note and check mark. When a long term relationship meant anything longer than a week... and when a kiss (with tongue!) was hot-shit.
Nowadays guys are so damn clueless. Or at least they pretend to be.
Am I right, ladies?!
I mean, have you ever had a guy in your life that you kinda dig, but are afraid (of rejection) that he might not return the feelings or just as worse, you get together and it's not what you wanted or things change? Or how about when you think - "he's GOTTA know I like him". I mean, all the signals are there. And supposedly, he had "no clue".
I once heard from a friend of a friend... that guys aren't nearly as clueless as we believe them to be. It seems a guy CAN tell when a woman likes him or has a "crush" (and only) when he has absolutely no feelings in return for said woman. That really they are only clueless when they in fact DO feel an emotional/physical attraction back.
If this is true - that is some serious psychological bullshit (Not bullshit, as in "I can't believe that!?!" - but bullshit as in - "that's MESSED UP!").
I guess it best that men don't always know when we are at our weakest.
Now ladies, don't hate me (or kick me out of the club) on this one, but let's be honest here. We all know there are times in our lives when you get that "itch". Not THAT itch, sicko. I'm talking about when we are at our weakest. When we meet a guy (or another woman - to each his/her own) and all it takes is a simple look - a "come hither" glance - and we're jelly. It only occasionally even has anything to do with that particular guy (let's face it, it could have been anyone) - he just happen to catch us on a weak day. Fortunately, for us, many men are not aware of this and only a few have capitalized (and by a few I mean several million, but let's keep this in perspective shall we).
Anyway, so I'm thinking about using the check mark note approach on the next guy I like. What do you think? Do you think: my idea is"so cute, it might actually work" or "sista', give it up and just hit on him like the rest of us!"? Let me know.
And to all 2-3 guys (how many ARE there of you I wonder...) who read my blog - tell me what is your opinion on aggressive women? Yay or nay? Is it really just all about the chase?
6 comments:
Aggressive women? Depends on the guy. Most macho type guys are used to being in control, and going after what they want. Those guys have to chase you. Guys that are less macho/masculine who might be a little shy are flattered by being chased.
I say try the note thing out. It will be a cute story for the grandkids.
If the dude likes you back then he'll say yes. Does it really matter HOW you tell someone you're interested? If they like you the answer will be YES and if they don't like you the answer will be NO. I don't think men care about the delivery. I once flat out told a guy (who I will call Joey) I was interested in him (the endless flirting was getting to be a little too much). Joey told me how much he liked me too but that he was more interested in my friend. And he asked for my friend's number. I gave it to him. When it didn't work out between Joey and my friend, he came back to me. "Oh hotpinksox, do you want to have a beer some time? I'd like to get to know you" I told him he had only one chance and he blew it. Then I asked for his friend's number. :) Believe it or not Joey and I are now really good friends. I think it was because I would put up with his BS. Just to clarify by BS I mean, I gave him the number even though it was REALLY F-ed UP. Then I gave him a taste of his own medicine.
Send a note, good luck and tell us how it works out.
I don't mind a semi-aggressive woman, but not like, restraining order style aggression. It's a nice change of pace from the typical chase, and I think being with the girl is better than chasing her.
I had a girl in highschool that I was always crazy about, and even past highschool I was. So I'm laying it on somewhat thick, I'm a guy dropping big hints that I really like her, and when I finally just came out and said it bluntly, she acted like she had no clue. I felt like the girl. So it's not just guys who are clueless!
The note thing will totally work. It's cute as hell! Do I know him??
I haven't really liked someone or had a crush in so long (stupid B). I looove that feeling!
Hmmm, seems I may have misled y'all. I don't have a current "crush"... at least not anymore. This kinda just popped into my head yesterday. heh.
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