Aaah yes, the masochist in me is out and about these days. I found out my ex recently finished his PhD. This is great news. I know how hard he worked and what this means to him.
So me being super sweet person/ex that I am, I decided to do the really nice thing and send a congratulatory email. Wanna know what I got in response?? Nothing. Not a g'damn thing!
In fact, I haven't gotten one response from him in MONTHS. Not that I've been psycho ex thatgirl7278 and sending emails all the time, but I have sent about 2-3 in the last 3-4 months. Mostly to remind him of our mutual friend's birthday and about basketball. Nothing personal AT ALL. And not ONE of my attempts has garnered a response. I never would have considered him an asshole... but his lack of respect is pretty obvious.
I'd buy this if things had ended badly. But they didn't. At least, I don't think so. I mean... one day, it was just over. I am not very happy about this, but at the same time, there ain't a damn thing I can do. In the meantime, I have to convince my head this.
To self: Repeat after yourself, you can't control other people's actions. You can't control other people's actions.
Not working yet. I'll keep trying.
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